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In April we focus on inter-personal relations, highlighting the virtues of forgiveness, graciousness and courtesy, gentleness and humility. These self-effacing virtues turn the spotlight on the needs of others and do not betray weakness. When we inspire our children with the power of forgiveness, humility, and a gracious heart, we cultivate people of deep inner strength, laying the foundation for better communities. All of those themes resonate this month with the Jewish celebration of Passover, Christian celebration of Easter, and Muslim celebration of Ramadan.
It is a challenge to find stories that speak to the importance of saying “after you,” “forgive me,” “I was wrong,” or “I may very well be wrong.” Ours is a culture that prizes ambition and self-assertion. There is nothing wrong with ambition--the inner drive to succeed and fully utilize one's talents. But when concern for self-advancement warps into self-aggrandizement (an exaggerated sense of one's importance and one's abilities) then humility, forgiveness, and even courtesy are casualties. The stories we highlight this month- fictional and historical, serious and humorous - attempt to bolster these little sung virtues.
Schools of faith, celebrating Passover, Easter, or Ramadan this month will find natural tie-ins in with their faith traditions. Parents and teachers should take some time to check out our three holiday pages for Passover, Easter, and Ramadan.
If as a parent, you're looking for ways to cultivate graciousness and courtesy in the home, don't forget to model it toward your kids, and check out this handy article, "How To Raise Gracious Kids." If as a citizen, you're troubled that we are not awash in gentleness, humility, and forgiveness right now, take some time to read our Parent and Teacher suggestions below: Arthur Brooks' volume Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt and/or Desmond Tutu's No Future Without Forgiveness.
It is a challenge to find stories that speak to the importance of saying “after you,” “forgive me,” “I was wrong,” or “I may very well be wrong.” Ours is a culture that prizes ambition and self-assertion. There is nothing wrong with ambition--the inner drive to succeed and fully utilize one's talents. But when concern for self-advancement warps into self-aggrandizement (an exaggerated sense of one's importance and one's abilities) then humility, forgiveness, and even courtesy are casualties. The stories we highlight this month- fictional and historical, serious and humorous - attempt to bolster these little sung virtues.
Schools of faith, celebrating Passover, Easter, or Ramadan this month will find natural tie-ins in with their faith traditions. Parents and teachers should take some time to check out our three holiday pages for Passover, Easter, and Ramadan.
If as a parent, you're looking for ways to cultivate graciousness and courtesy in the home, don't forget to model it toward your kids, and check out this handy article, "How To Raise Gracious Kids." If as a citizen, you're troubled that we are not awash in gentleness, humility, and forgiveness right now, take some time to read our Parent and Teacher suggestions below: Arthur Brooks' volume Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt and/or Desmond Tutu's No Future Without Forgiveness.
April Recommendations
The following books are a small sampling of the books recommended in the Resource Guide.
(grade levels indicated in parentheses)
Additional suggestions by virtue for K-3 ; Additional suggestions for 3-6
The following books are a small sampling of the books recommended in the Resource Guide.
(grade levels indicated in parentheses)
Additional suggestions by virtue for K-3 ; Additional suggestions for 3-6
The Honest-to-Goodness Truth. Patricia C. McKissack. Illustrated by Giselle Potter. Aladdin, 2003. (K-3) Courtesy, Honesty
Libby tells a lie to her mother, and immediately repents when her mother calls her to honesty. She becomes so enthusiastic for truth-telling that it starts to get her in trouble—as she shares her unfiltered thoughts with all her friends, they get upset, and she can't understand why. Can telling the truth ever be wrong? Eventually, Libby's mother helps her understand the importance of courtesy when practicing honesty: "Sometimes the truth is told at the wrong time or in the wrong way, or for the wrong reasons. And that can be hurtful. But the honest-to-goodness truth is never wrong." Fun, simple illustrations throughout.
Libby tells a lie to her mother, and immediately repents when her mother calls her to honesty. She becomes so enthusiastic for truth-telling that it starts to get her in trouble—as she shares her unfiltered thoughts with all her friends, they get upset, and she can't understand why. Can telling the truth ever be wrong? Eventually, Libby's mother helps her understand the importance of courtesy when practicing honesty: "Sometimes the truth is told at the wrong time or in the wrong way, or for the wrong reasons. And that can be hurtful. But the honest-to-goodness truth is never wrong." Fun, simple illustrations throughout.
Grandad Mandela. Ambassador Zindzi Mandela et al. Frances Lincoln Children's Books, 2018. (K-2) Justice, Forgiveness
Told through the eyes of Nelson Mandela's two great-grandchildren Zazi and Ziewelene, this is a conversation with their grandmother, Zindzi Mandela, about the remarkable life of their great-grandfather. Zazi and Ziewelene ask their grandmother questions about Mandela's life, and the story unfolds in an age-appropriate manner that will introduce young children to some difficult historical realities while highlighting the inspiring life of this hero of forgiveness. Accompanied by delicate cutout-style illustrations. For more selections on Nelson Mandela, visit our April Heroes page.
Told through the eyes of Nelson Mandela's two great-grandchildren Zazi and Ziewelene, this is a conversation with their grandmother, Zindzi Mandela, about the remarkable life of their great-grandfather. Zazi and Ziewelene ask their grandmother questions about Mandela's life, and the story unfolds in an age-appropriate manner that will introduce young children to some difficult historical realities while highlighting the inspiring life of this hero of forgiveness. Accompanied by delicate cutout-style illustrations. For more selections on Nelson Mandela, visit our April Heroes page.
Just Being Audrey. Margaret Cardillo. Illustrated by Julia Denos. Balzer + Bray, 2011. (K-3) Charity, Graciousness, Immigrant Heritage Month.
This story kicks off with a quote from Audrey Hepburn: "I never think about myself as an icon . . . I just do my thing." A delightful tale unfolds of Audrey "doing her thing," from her early aspirations to be a ballerina to her painful childhood experience of World War II, to her emigration to America and career as a gracious and hardworking actress, who parlayed her success into work for UNICEF. The final episode the book is her speech to UNICEF in 1989. Strikingly accurate and winsome illustrations of Audrey dance through the pages.
This story kicks off with a quote from Audrey Hepburn: "I never think about myself as an icon . . . I just do my thing." A delightful tale unfolds of Audrey "doing her thing," from her early aspirations to be a ballerina to her painful childhood experience of World War II, to her emigration to America and career as a gracious and hardworking actress, who parlayed her success into work for UNICEF. The final episode the book is her speech to UNICEF in 1989. Strikingly accurate and winsome illustrations of Audrey dance through the pages.
Please Please the Bees.* Gerald Kelley. Albert Whitman and Co, 2017 (K-3) Courtesy, Compassion
Benedict, a complacent, self-satisfied bear has a sweet life. Industrious bees on his property bring him three jars of honey each day for his morning toast and evening tea. Life is good. Does he notice their work? Does he say please or thank you? NO. The bees go on strike, and blind-sided Benedict has to figure out how to lure them back. He makes life better for them in many ways and they return, showing that sensitivity to their needs builds community. BUT the author misses an easy point (especially given the book's title): why couldn't Benedict say "please" or "thank you" even when they return? (Parents or teachers could ask kids: "How might Benedict have prevented the strike to begin with?") *This story is charmingly read and available on Storyline Online.
Benedict, a complacent, self-satisfied bear has a sweet life. Industrious bees on his property bring him three jars of honey each day for his morning toast and evening tea. Life is good. Does he notice their work? Does he say please or thank you? NO. The bees go on strike, and blind-sided Benedict has to figure out how to lure them back. He makes life better for them in many ways and they return, showing that sensitivity to their needs builds community. BUT the author misses an easy point (especially given the book's title): why couldn't Benedict say "please" or "thank you" even when they return? (Parents or teachers could ask kids: "How might Benedict have prevented the strike to begin with?") *This story is charmingly read and available on Storyline Online.
Snatchabook. Helen Docherty. Illustrated by Thomas Docherty. Sourcebooks Jabberwocky, 2013. (K-2) Honesty, Forgiveness
This is a delightful, cleverly rhyming picture book that must be read aloud. The tiny creature "Snatchabook" (who has no one to read to him) flies in each night to steal stories from bunnies in their burrows, owls in their hollows, and hedgehogs in their homes. (Bunny) Eliza Brown at Number Three sets out to solve the mystery of who (or what) is stealing from their homes. A marvelous light-hearted look at one critter gone astray and forgiveness gained along the way....
This is a delightful, cleverly rhyming picture book that must be read aloud. The tiny creature "Snatchabook" (who has no one to read to him) flies in each night to steal stories from bunnies in their burrows, owls in their hollows, and hedgehogs in their homes. (Bunny) Eliza Brown at Number Three sets out to solve the mystery of who (or what) is stealing from their homes. A marvelous light-hearted look at one critter gone astray and forgiveness gained along the way....
The Cat Who Came for Tacos. Diana Star Helmer.
Illustrated by Vivi Escriva. Albert Whitman, 2003. (K-2) Courtesy, Respect
Charming, brightly illustrated story of a scrawny cat named Flynn, who parks himself on the doorstep of a Mexican-American family and is adopted, by big-hearted Senora Rosa and her husband Tomas. But Flynn must learn the house rules before he gets his tacos. Please, thank you, and much more….
Illustrated by Vivi Escriva. Albert Whitman, 2003. (K-2) Courtesy, Respect
Charming, brightly illustrated story of a scrawny cat named Flynn, who parks himself on the doorstep of a Mexican-American family and is adopted, by big-hearted Senora Rosa and her husband Tomas. But Flynn must learn the house rules before he gets his tacos. Please, thank you, and much more….
Do Unto Otters: A Book about Manners.* Laurie Keller.
Henry Holt, 2007. (K-1) Respect, Courtesy.
It's not literature, but .... it’s a very amusing K-1 word play on the Golden Rule. Teachers should introduce the real-deal Golden Rule first. (“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”) Go over the wording of the genuine article a few times. And then read this lively little book about a rabbit, who’s appalled that his new next-door neighbors are going to be .... otters. “I don’t know anything about otters. What if we don’t get along?” Buddy owl tells insecure rabbit that he should treat otters the same way “you’d like otters to treat you.” So how is that? A very specific and complete explanation follows: for example, he'd like them to be friendly - “a cheerful hello, a nice smile, and good eye contact.” We are led through the specifics of friendly, polite, considerate, cooperative, fair, good sharer, and much else. It's otterly lovely. *Available on Epic!
Henry Holt, 2007. (K-1) Respect, Courtesy.
It's not literature, but .... it’s a very amusing K-1 word play on the Golden Rule. Teachers should introduce the real-deal Golden Rule first. (“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”) Go over the wording of the genuine article a few times. And then read this lively little book about a rabbit, who’s appalled that his new next-door neighbors are going to be .... otters. “I don’t know anything about otters. What if we don’t get along?” Buddy owl tells insecure rabbit that he should treat otters the same way “you’d like otters to treat you.” So how is that? A very specific and complete explanation follows: for example, he'd like them to be friendly - “a cheerful hello, a nice smile, and good eye contact.” We are led through the specifics of friendly, polite, considerate, cooperative, fair, good sharer, and much else. It's otterly lovely. *Available on Epic!
Three Bears in a Boat. David Soman.
Dial Books, 2014 (Pre-K-1) Forgiveness, Respect
Three mischievous siblings break Mama Bear's favorite blue seashell. Rather than fess up, they set out to sea in their sailboat to find a replacement. Along the way they meet fellow sailor-seekers, sail through treacherous weather, argue with each other, but ultimately realize that “they are all in the same boat,” and learn to help each other. They return home with no replacement in hand. Beautifully written, and adorable watercolor illustrations make you want to forgive and cuddle the cubs. Mom wisely forgives their disobedience but sends them to bed without dessert.
Dial Books, 2014 (Pre-K-1) Forgiveness, Respect
Three mischievous siblings break Mama Bear's favorite blue seashell. Rather than fess up, they set out to sea in their sailboat to find a replacement. Along the way they meet fellow sailor-seekers, sail through treacherous weather, argue with each other, but ultimately realize that “they are all in the same boat,” and learn to help each other. They return home with no replacement in hand. Beautifully written, and adorable watercolor illustrations make you want to forgive and cuddle the cubs. Mom wisely forgives their disobedience but sends them to bed without dessert.
Mary Wrightly, So Politely. Shirin Yim Bridges.
Illustrated by Maria Monescillo. HMH Books, 2013. (K-1) Courtesy, Courage
Soft-spoken Mary Wrightly is a little girl who never fails to be courteous (sometimes to a fault). In this book she comes to understand that in addition to being respectful of others, she must also make her own voice heard. A lovely parable of courtesy and assertiveness, especially for quiet little boys and girls.
Illustrated by Maria Monescillo. HMH Books, 2013. (K-1) Courtesy, Courage
Soft-spoken Mary Wrightly is a little girl who never fails to be courteous (sometimes to a fault). In this book she comes to understand that in addition to being respectful of others, she must also make her own voice heard. A lovely parable of courtesy and assertiveness, especially for quiet little boys and girls.
Sorry. Jean Van Leeuwen. Illustrated by Brad Sneed.
Penguin, 2001. (K-2) Forgiveness
Two brothers revel in each other’s companionship and live harmoniously until the day they fight over – of all things – oatmeal. Neither proffers an apology and the family split becomes a feud, and then permanent. Generations later their great-grandchildren are about to renew the spat over equally trivial things when one great-grandson unexpectedly says: “Sorry” and reconciliation has a chance. This is a satire, and one that tickles the funny bone, but you still feel a twinge of regret for the two brothers who feuded over oatmeal and couldn’t bring themselves to forgive.
Penguin, 2001. (K-2) Forgiveness
Two brothers revel in each other’s companionship and live harmoniously until the day they fight over – of all things – oatmeal. Neither proffers an apology and the family split becomes a feud, and then permanent. Generations later their great-grandchildren are about to renew the spat over equally trivial things when one great-grandson unexpectedly says: “Sorry” and reconciliation has a chance. This is a satire, and one that tickles the funny bone, but you still feel a twinge of regret for the two brothers who feuded over oatmeal and couldn’t bring themselves to forgive.
Cookies: Bite-Size Life Lessons. Amy Rosenthal.Illustrated by Jane Dyer Harper Collins, 2006 (K-2) Wisdom, Courtesy, Graciousness
Who doesn’t get a warm fuzzy feeling when thinking of virtues in terms of cookies? In this book, easy to follow definitions of virtuous concepts incorporate cookies in ingenious ways: “Trustworthy means, if you ask me to hold your cookie until you come back, when you come back, I will still be holding your cookie.” This could also be used in September as an introduction to the virtues program as it incorporates many virtues. Charming illustrations will make this book a favorite.
Who doesn’t get a warm fuzzy feeling when thinking of virtues in terms of cookies? In this book, easy to follow definitions of virtuous concepts incorporate cookies in ingenious ways: “Trustworthy means, if you ask me to hold your cookie until you come back, when you come back, I will still be holding your cookie.” This could also be used in September as an introduction to the virtues program as it incorporates many virtues. Charming illustrations will make this book a favorite.
King Hugo’s Huge Ego. Chris Van Dusen.
Candlewick, 2011. (K-3) Humility
A witty, rhyming picture book about a king who is boastful, imperious, and just plain full of himself. (“Yes, Hugo was a cocky king—as boastful as could be. To him, no other person was as wonderful as he.”) A peasant sorceress teaches the braggart king a thing or two about exaggerating his gifts by making his head swell whenever he tells a whopper. This is a boldly illustrated, laugh-out-loud funny counterweight to arrogance and the “fat, relentless ego,” as philosopher Iris Murdoch branded it. (King Hugo mends his ways…)
Candlewick, 2011. (K-3) Humility
A witty, rhyming picture book about a king who is boastful, imperious, and just plain full of himself. (“Yes, Hugo was a cocky king—as boastful as could be. To him, no other person was as wonderful as he.”) A peasant sorceress teaches the braggart king a thing or two about exaggerating his gifts by making his head swell whenever he tells a whopper. This is a boldly illustrated, laugh-out-loud funny counterweight to arrogance and the “fat, relentless ego,” as philosopher Iris Murdoch branded it. (King Hugo mends his ways…)
The Golden Plate* Bernadette Watts. North South Books, 2014. (K-3) Honesty, Forgiveness
Isobel and her friend, Elizabeth love to play with their doll houses. At Elizabeth’s one day, Isobel sees a golden plate hanging above the stove. She takes it when Elizabeth is not looking. As she walks home “the golden plate felt heavy in her pocket.” It didn’t look right in her doll house, and now she tries to hide it and bury her dark feelings. Her guilt weighs on her until finally she confesses to her mom what she has done. Her Mom convinces her to return the plate and Elizabeth is wonderfully forgiving. Their friendship is renewed. Charming illustrations that have a golden reference on almost every page. The inner life of Isobel as her guilt grows is well done and kids will be able to relate to it. *Available on Epic!
Isobel and her friend, Elizabeth love to play with their doll houses. At Elizabeth’s one day, Isobel sees a golden plate hanging above the stove. She takes it when Elizabeth is not looking. As she walks home “the golden plate felt heavy in her pocket.” It didn’t look right in her doll house, and now she tries to hide it and bury her dark feelings. Her guilt weighs on her until finally she confesses to her mom what she has done. Her Mom convinces her to return the plate and Elizabeth is wonderfully forgiving. Their friendship is renewed. Charming illustrations that have a golden reference on almost every page. The inner life of Isobel as her guilt grows is well done and kids will be able to relate to it. *Available on Epic!
Rules of the Wild: An Unruly Book of Manners. Bridget Levin. Illustrated by Amanda Shepherd. Chronicle Books, 2004. (K-3) Courtesy
Camels spit, but should people? This very clever rhyming book playfully introduces children to the differences between rules of wild animal behavior and those of humans. It is funny, not preachy, but delivers the message that we need to consider those around us. It'll make the little ones roar with laughter. (But maybe only lions should roar, and not humans ....)
Camels spit, but should people? This very clever rhyming book playfully introduces children to the differences between rules of wild animal behavior and those of humans. It is funny, not preachy, but delivers the message that we need to consider those around us. It'll make the little ones roar with laughter. (But maybe only lions should roar, and not humans ....)
Me and Momma and Big John. Mara Rockliff. Illustrated by William Low.
Candlewick, 2012. (K-3) Diligence, Humility, Dignity of Labor
Based on a true story, this is a singular book with an unusual message. An African-American mother labors as a stone cutter for the Cathedral of St. John of the Divine (“Big John”) in New York City. It is hard physical labor, but also art, yet no one will know which stone she has cut. The latter profoundly annoys her children (the story is told through the eyes of her son) until they see her work in place at the luminous cathedral, and realize that it is part of something greater than one artist’s self-expression. A beautifully told, beautifully illustrated tale of diligence, the dignity of labor, community and humility.
Candlewick, 2012. (K-3) Diligence, Humility, Dignity of Labor
Based on a true story, this is a singular book with an unusual message. An African-American mother labors as a stone cutter for the Cathedral of St. John of the Divine (“Big John”) in New York City. It is hard physical labor, but also art, yet no one will know which stone she has cut. The latter profoundly annoys her children (the story is told through the eyes of her son) until they see her work in place at the luminous cathedral, and realize that it is part of something greater than one artist’s self-expression. A beautifully told, beautifully illustrated tale of diligence, the dignity of labor, community and humility.
The Magical Wishing Fish. The Brothers Grimm. Illustrated by Loek Koopmans Floris Books, 2018 (K-3)
A fanciful retelling of the fisherman who nets a fish that grants his every wish. In short order the fishermen and his greedy wife are overwhelmed by their “good fortune”—netting an impossible number of lobsters, needing a bigger cooking pot, a bigger house, a new everything! In time, they learn the value of simplicity and the humble life.
A fanciful retelling of the fisherman who nets a fish that grants his every wish. In short order the fishermen and his greedy wife are overwhelmed by their “good fortune”—netting an impossible number of lobsters, needing a bigger cooking pot, a bigger house, a new everything! In time, they learn the value of simplicity and the humble life.
Beatrix Potter and the Unfortunate Tale of a Borrowed Guinea Pig. Deborah Hopkinson. Illustrated by Charlotte Voake. Schwartz & Wade, 2016. (K-3) Forgiveness, Honesty
A (mostly) charming picture book, told in "Now, Dear Reader" letter form, as so many of Beatrix Potter’s stories were. We are introduced to the world of young Beatrix Potter's many pets (a veritable menagerie), which unfortunately did not include a guinea pig, which she was fortunate enough to borrow, in order to paint.... But sometimes things happen (borrowed pets die) and we have to make the best of it (offering sincere apologies with beautiful rendering of said pet). Forgiveness may be slow in coming but lessons are learned by both parties. (The painting in question sold for $85,000 in 2011.)
A (mostly) charming picture book, told in "Now, Dear Reader" letter form, as so many of Beatrix Potter’s stories were. We are introduced to the world of young Beatrix Potter's many pets (a veritable menagerie), which unfortunately did not include a guinea pig, which she was fortunate enough to borrow, in order to paint.... But sometimes things happen (borrowed pets die) and we have to make the best of it (offering sincere apologies with beautiful rendering of said pet). Forgiveness may be slow in coming but lessons are learned by both parties. (The painting in question sold for $85,000 in 2011.)
Lemon Moon. Edith Hope Fine. Illustrated by Rene King Moreno. National Geographic School, 2010. (K-3) Forgiveness, Generosity
Set in Mexico, a young girl nurtures a lemon tree in her parents garden, and is troubled to be awakened one night by a hunch-backed thief stealing her lemons. The theft (of all the lemons) is followed by a blight on the tree, which keeps it from producing more lemons. In the market, Rosalina sees the impoverished man who stole her lemons selling them -- HER lemons! The story unfolds from there as she both tries to understand his motivation and teach him a lesson in growing his own. A lovely exploration of patience, forgiveness, and compassion.
Set in Mexico, a young girl nurtures a lemon tree in her parents garden, and is troubled to be awakened one night by a hunch-backed thief stealing her lemons. The theft (of all the lemons) is followed by a blight on the tree, which keeps it from producing more lemons. In the market, Rosalina sees the impoverished man who stole her lemons selling them -- HER lemons! The story unfolds from there as she both tries to understand his motivation and teach him a lesson in growing his own. A lovely exploration of patience, forgiveness, and compassion.
Nelson Mandela. Kadir Nelson. Katherine Tegan Books, 2013.
(1-3) Courage, Love of Country, Sacrifice
Striking illustrations and modest text chart the life of South Africa's first black president. In simple language the book chronicles Mandela's youth, education as a lawyer, active opposition to the system of apartheid (institutionalized racial discrimination), his twenty-seven-year imprisonment for resistance, and finally his release and election as president of post-apartheid South Africa. Nelson Mandela's spirit remained unbroken by his decades in jail, and his work as president focused on building a multi-racial future. Kadir Nelson does not mention Mandela's armed activism against the regime as the offense that landed him in jail, and he missed a good opportunity to speak directly to Mandela's "politics of forgiveness" after his release. Still, the illustrations are a triumph and the book does show Mandela as an exemplar of moral courage. For other children's books on Nelson Mandela, see our April "Heroes" section.
(1-3) Courage, Love of Country, Sacrifice
Striking illustrations and modest text chart the life of South Africa's first black president. In simple language the book chronicles Mandela's youth, education as a lawyer, active opposition to the system of apartheid (institutionalized racial discrimination), his twenty-seven-year imprisonment for resistance, and finally his release and election as president of post-apartheid South Africa. Nelson Mandela's spirit remained unbroken by his decades in jail, and his work as president focused on building a multi-racial future. Kadir Nelson does not mention Mandela's armed activism against the regime as the offense that landed him in jail, and he missed a good opportunity to speak directly to Mandela's "politics of forgiveness" after his release. Still, the illustrations are a triumph and the book does show Mandela as an exemplar of moral courage. For other children's books on Nelson Mandela, see our April "Heroes" section.
Grandfather Gandhi. Arun Gandhi and Bethany Hegedus. Illustrated by Evan Turk. Atheneum Books for Young Readers, 2014. (1-4) Courtesy
A first-person narrative of Gandhi's grandson, who goes to live with his famous grandfather at a "service village" in India. The young boy resents sharing his grandfather with others and worries he will never live up to his grandfather's expectations. He has a temper. "How could he--a Gandhi--be so easy to anger?" In a soccer match, Arun's temper gets the better of him, and his grandfather has useful insight and advice.
A first-person narrative of Gandhi's grandson, who goes to live with his famous grandfather at a "service village" in India. The young boy resents sharing his grandfather with others and worries he will never live up to his grandfather's expectations. He has a temper. "How could he--a Gandhi--be so easy to anger?" In a soccer match, Arun's temper gets the better of him, and his grandfather has useful insight and advice.
Hello Neighbor!: The Kind and Caring World of Mr. Rogers. Matthew Cordell. Neal Porter Books, 2020. (1-4) Gentleness, Graciousness
A surprisingly detailed and wonderfully illustrated picture book biography. The amount of information in expository format makes this lovely work best first grade forward. Captures his kind "Hello, Neighbor!" persona.
A surprisingly detailed and wonderfully illustrated picture book biography. The amount of information in expository format makes this lovely work best first grade forward. Captures his kind "Hello, Neighbor!" persona.
“The Good Samaritan.” and "The Prodigal Son" inThe Good Samaritan and Other Parables. Holiday House, 2017. (K-6) Forgiveness, Compassion
The classic Gospel story (Luke 10) answering the question: Who is my neighbor? The answer: the least of our brethren, those in need. Also Profligate son asks for his inheritance from his father before father’s death. The father grants his wish, the son leaves home, squanders wealth in luxury and high life, then filled with remorse, returns to his father to ask permission to work as a servant on the family farm. Father forgives and welcomes him home.
The classic Gospel story (Luke 10) answering the question: Who is my neighbor? The answer: the least of our brethren, those in need. Also Profligate son asks for his inheritance from his father before father’s death. The father grants his wish, the son leaves home, squanders wealth in luxury and high life, then filled with remorse, returns to his father to ask permission to work as a servant on the family farm. Father forgives and welcomes him home.
Big Red Lollipop. Rukhsana Khan. Illustrated by Sophie Blackall. Viking Books, 2010. (K-3) Compassion, Forgiveness
Newly arrived in the United States, Rubina is excited to be invited to a school friend's birthday party, but her mother insists that she take her little sister Sana along too. Sana behaves abysmally during the party and then steals Rubina’s lollipop, which she had been saving for the next day. Hard feelings between the sisters last for a while (and invitations to parties are few for Rubina). Later when Sana receives an invitation to a party, and their mother insists that she bring the youngest sister along, and Rubina could've seen it as payback time. But the older sister steps in, explains customs to her mother and insists she should not have to bring the youngest. Mom listens. Rubina is rewarded not only with the renewed friendship of her sister but also with a lollipop that Sana saves for her. The illustrations are lovely and bright: the mother attired in traditional Pakistani clothes and the children in American style suggesting the cultural adaptation of the family in their adopted home.
Newly arrived in the United States, Rubina is excited to be invited to a school friend's birthday party, but her mother insists that she take her little sister Sana along too. Sana behaves abysmally during the party and then steals Rubina’s lollipop, which she had been saving for the next day. Hard feelings between the sisters last for a while (and invitations to parties are few for Rubina). Later when Sana receives an invitation to a party, and their mother insists that she bring the youngest sister along, and Rubina could've seen it as payback time. But the older sister steps in, explains customs to her mother and insists she should not have to bring the youngest. Mom listens. Rubina is rewarded not only with the renewed friendship of her sister but also with a lollipop that Sana saves for her. The illustrations are lovely and bright: the mother attired in traditional Pakistani clothes and the children in American style suggesting the cultural adaptation of the family in their adopted home.
Madeline Says Merci. John Bemelmans Marciano. Viking Books, 2001. Respect, Courtesy, Kindness (K-2)
This is a lyrical adaptation of the classic Madeline story by John Bemelmans' grandson, and it presents basic and charming lessons in manners and kindness. Rhyming verse encourages lessons in greetings, please and thank you, apologies, as well as kindness and consideration of others. Red-headed Madeline retains joie de vivre while modeling good manners.
This is a lyrical adaptation of the classic Madeline story by John Bemelmans' grandson, and it presents basic and charming lessons in manners and kindness. Rhyming verse encourages lessons in greetings, please and thank you, apologies, as well as kindness and consideration of others. Red-headed Madeline retains joie de vivre while modeling good manners.
Interrupting Chicken. David Ezra Stein. Candlewick, 2013. Respect, Courtesy, Friendship. (K-2)
Papa (rooster) tries to read three different bedtime stories to his little chicken, but Chicken cannot resist interrupting each one (versions of Hansel and Gretel, Little Red Riding Hood, and the Little Red Hen). Chicken is constantly attempting to rescue fairy tale characters by rewriting the ending. When Papa is exasperated by constant interruptions, Interrupting Chicken recognizes her error and obediently resolves not to do it again. (But does...) The story does not end with Interrupting Chicken learning the right lesson, but child readers (not Chickens) do get the point and laugh throughout. Teachers have a new tool for addressing a perennial classroom problem in the early grades. Vivid and hilarious. illustrations.
Papa (rooster) tries to read three different bedtime stories to his little chicken, but Chicken cannot resist interrupting each one (versions of Hansel and Gretel, Little Red Riding Hood, and the Little Red Hen). Chicken is constantly attempting to rescue fairy tale characters by rewriting the ending. When Papa is exasperated by constant interruptions, Interrupting Chicken recognizes her error and obediently resolves not to do it again. (But does...) The story does not end with Interrupting Chicken learning the right lesson, but child readers (not Chickens) do get the point and laugh throughout. Teachers have a new tool for addressing a perennial classroom problem in the early grades. Vivid and hilarious. illustrations.
The Way Meat Loves Salt. Nina Jaffe. Illustrated by Louise August.
Henry Holt &Co, 1998. (K-4) Forgiveness, Schools of Faith
A Polish version of King Lear with a twist. Father asks his daughters how much they love him. One daughter says “as much as diamonds”, the second daughter says ”as much as silver and gold” . When the third daughter replies that she loves her father the way meat loves salt, he is insulted and furious. He turns her out of the house. Alone and fearful, she meets a strange old man who assures her he will help her. He gives her a magic stick. At her wedding, she asks the cooks to make the meal without any salt. When her father comments that the food tastes terrible, she reveals herself as his long lost daughter who loves him more than meat loves salt. All is forgiven. Colorful and delightful illustrations.
Henry Holt &Co, 1998. (K-4) Forgiveness, Schools of Faith
A Polish version of King Lear with a twist. Father asks his daughters how much they love him. One daughter says “as much as diamonds”, the second daughter says ”as much as silver and gold” . When the third daughter replies that she loves her father the way meat loves salt, he is insulted and furious. He turns her out of the house. Alone and fearful, she meets a strange old man who assures her he will help her. He gives her a magic stick. At her wedding, she asks the cooks to make the meal without any salt. When her father comments that the food tastes terrible, she reveals herself as his long lost daughter who loves him more than meat loves salt. All is forgiven. Colorful and delightful illustrations.
The Story of Little Babaji. Helen Bannerman.
Illlustrated by Fred Marcellino. Harper Collins, 1996. (K-2) Humility
Originally set in India, Helen Bannerman's The Story of Little Black Sambo (1899) took on unwelcome racial overtones when retold abroad. But here the beloved characters are given authentic Indian names, and the classic tale comes to life in its own right. Babaji feels special in his new clothes, but when tigers threaten him, he is quick to think of a way to save himself. Bullying, pride, humility and pancakes– it's all in this simple story. Marcellino’s marvelous illustrations show how proud (and ridiculous!) the tigers look in Babaji’s clothing.
Illlustrated by Fred Marcellino. Harper Collins, 1996. (K-2) Humility
Originally set in India, Helen Bannerman's The Story of Little Black Sambo (1899) took on unwelcome racial overtones when retold abroad. But here the beloved characters are given authentic Indian names, and the classic tale comes to life in its own right. Babaji feels special in his new clothes, but when tigers threaten him, he is quick to think of a way to save himself. Bullying, pride, humility and pancakes– it's all in this simple story. Marcellino’s marvelous illustrations show how proud (and ridiculous!) the tigers look in Babaji’s clothing.
Everyday Graces: A Child's Book of Good Manners. Karen Santorum.
Intercollegiate Studies Institute, 2003. (K-3) Graciousness, Courtesy
This hefty anthology is worth its weight in gold. Mrs. Santorum has collected a treasury of tales from such notable children's writers as Frances Hodgson Burnett, C.S. Lewis, Beatrix Potter, Mark Twain, and Arnold Lobel - all of whom tell stories that reinforce such lessons as "No Hurtful Words," "Please and Thank You." or "Honor Your Mother and Father." This is a wonderful early childhood collection. One tale could be read at bedtime in addition to morning circle! Using wonderful literature, each reinforces the way we show respect for others through good manners.
Intercollegiate Studies Institute, 2003. (K-3) Graciousness, Courtesy
This hefty anthology is worth its weight in gold. Mrs. Santorum has collected a treasury of tales from such notable children's writers as Frances Hodgson Burnett, C.S. Lewis, Beatrix Potter, Mark Twain, and Arnold Lobel - all of whom tell stories that reinforce such lessons as "No Hurtful Words," "Please and Thank You." or "Honor Your Mother and Father." This is a wonderful early childhood collection. One tale could be read at bedtime in addition to morning circle! Using wonderful literature, each reinforces the way we show respect for others through good manners.
King Solomon and the Bee. Dalia Hardof Renberg.
Illustrated by Ruth Heller. Crocodile Books, 2010. (K-2) Forgiveness
Lush illustrations accompany this retelling of the classic Jewish folktale. A bee alights on King Solomon’s nose, and mistakes it for a flower. The royal sting meets with a furious response, but King Solomon pardons the deeply ashamed bee, who promises to help him in time of trouble. Solomon expects no repayment but shows mercy, forgives, and off flies the bee – only to reappear when the King needs help solving a high-stakes riddle put to him by the Queen of Sheba.
Illustrated by Ruth Heller. Crocodile Books, 2010. (K-2) Forgiveness
Lush illustrations accompany this retelling of the classic Jewish folktale. A bee alights on King Solomon’s nose, and mistakes it for a flower. The royal sting meets with a furious response, but King Solomon pardons the deeply ashamed bee, who promises to help him in time of trouble. Solomon expects no repayment but shows mercy, forgives, and off flies the bee – only to reappear when the King needs help solving a high-stakes riddle put to him by the Queen of Sheba.
Being Frank. Donna W. Earnhardt. Illustrated by Andrea Castellani.
Flashlight Press, 2012. (K-2) Courtesy, Respect
Frank never lies. That’s a good thing – right? But Frank has to learn the difference between saying something hurtful (even though it may be true) and saying something helpful. Fortunately, his Grampa Ernest is there to show him the way. The humorous story is amplified by the bright, cartoony illustrations. Available on Epic!
Flashlight Press, 2012. (K-2) Courtesy, Respect
Frank never lies. That’s a good thing – right? But Frank has to learn the difference between saying something hurtful (even though it may be true) and saying something helpful. Fortunately, his Grampa Ernest is there to show him the way. The humorous story is amplified by the bright, cartoony illustrations. Available on Epic!
Lilly’s Purple Plastic Purse. Kevin Henkes.
Greenwillow Books, 2006. (K-2)Forgiveness
A young child’s story about going too far and needing to apologize. Lilly the Mouse adores her teacher, Mr. Slinger, and eagerly awaits her chance to impress him and her classmates at sharing time with her purple plastic purse, which contains many of her favorite treasures. The day she brings the purse, she consistently disrupts Mr. Slinger’s lessons in her enthusiasm; he confiscates it till day’s end. Hurt and mad, Lilly draws a picture of her “Big Fat Mean Mr. Stealing Teacher” and puts it in his book bag. Mr. Slinger models more generous behavior, returning her purse with snacks and a note assuring her that today was hard, but tomorrow will be better. Lilly is stricken with remorse, takes a hard look at herself and finds a way to say “I’m sorry.” A great early childhood model of forgiveness and humility all around.
Greenwillow Books, 2006. (K-2)Forgiveness
A young child’s story about going too far and needing to apologize. Lilly the Mouse adores her teacher, Mr. Slinger, and eagerly awaits her chance to impress him and her classmates at sharing time with her purple plastic purse, which contains many of her favorite treasures. The day she brings the purse, she consistently disrupts Mr. Slinger’s lessons in her enthusiasm; he confiscates it till day’s end. Hurt and mad, Lilly draws a picture of her “Big Fat Mean Mr. Stealing Teacher” and puts it in his book bag. Mr. Slinger models more generous behavior, returning her purse with snacks and a note assuring her that today was hard, but tomorrow will be better. Lilly is stricken with remorse, takes a hard look at herself and finds a way to say “I’m sorry.” A great early childhood model of forgiveness and humility all around.
The Stonecutter. Pam Newton. Illustrated by TK. Putnam, 1990. (K-3)Humility
Tale of ancient India, beautifully illustrated. A stonecutter learns to be grateful for the life he has and not always hunger for the greener grass. Works well with 2nd grade ancient India unit.
Tale of ancient India, beautifully illustrated. A stonecutter learns to be grateful for the life he has and not always hunger for the greener grass. Works well with 2nd grade ancient India unit.
The Emperor’s New Clothes: A Tale Set in China. Demi.
McElderry Books, 2000. (K-3) Humility
Demi sets this humorous classic tale in China, where a vainglorious emperor takes center stage. His “greatest pleasure in life was to dress in new clothes” and impress his subjects. A scheming weaver and tailor persuade the emperor that their goods are so magically fine, they can be seen only by clever people. When they make a great show of weaving the Emperor nothing, and fitting nothing to him exactly, he is chagrined, because he can’t see his new garments. But to admit that would be to concede weakness. His vanity spurs him to go on parade wearing only red dragon boxer short. Demi’s lavish illustrations carry the story. Charming details on each page.
McElderry Books, 2000. (K-3) Humility
Demi sets this humorous classic tale in China, where a vainglorious emperor takes center stage. His “greatest pleasure in life was to dress in new clothes” and impress his subjects. A scheming weaver and tailor persuade the emperor that their goods are so magically fine, they can be seen only by clever people. When they make a great show of weaving the Emperor nothing, and fitting nothing to him exactly, he is chagrined, because he can’t see his new garments. But to admit that would be to concede weakness. His vanity spurs him to go on parade wearing only red dragon boxer short. Demi’s lavish illustrations carry the story. Charming details on each page.
New Year at the Pier. A Rosh Hashanah Story. April Halprin Wayland. Illustrated by Stephane Jorisch. Dial Books, 2009. (K-3) Forgiveness, Holiday, Schools of Faith
Izzy and his family prepare for Jewish New Year by recalling any misdeeds of the past year for which they should apologize, and then apologize to the person harmed. Izzy finds it challenging to recall and seek forgiveness for his wrongdoing, but does so willingly -- if only there weren't this one thing.... A touching and lovely treatment of the challenge and healing of forgiveness (Izzy receives apologies too), and a very good explanation of the traditions of Rosh Hashanah. Limpid watercolors keep the feeling of a heavy subject light.
Izzy and his family prepare for Jewish New Year by recalling any misdeeds of the past year for which they should apologize, and then apologize to the person harmed. Izzy finds it challenging to recall and seek forgiveness for his wrongdoing, but does so willingly -- if only there weren't this one thing.... A touching and lovely treatment of the challenge and healing of forgiveness (Izzy receives apologies too), and a very good explanation of the traditions of Rosh Hashanah. Limpid watercolors keep the feeling of a heavy subject light.
The Story of Ruby Bridges. Robert Coles. Illustrated by George Ford. Scholastic, 2010. (K-4)Forgiveness, Compassion, Faith, Courage, Justice
This extraordinary picture book is a touching, age-appropriate retelling of the first black child to integrate Louisiana’s segregated schools. In November 1960, six-year-old Ruby Bridges was escorted by federal marshals to her new school, and a jeering crowd outside booed, spat, and threw things. Ruby’s family’s faith, the child’s courage and her prayer that “Please God, try to forgive these people. Because even if they say those bad things. They don’t know what they are doing” are all remarkable. This version was authored by Harvard child psychiatrist Robert Coles (The Moral Lives of Children), and is in its anniversary reprint edition. A classic.
This extraordinary picture book is a touching, age-appropriate retelling of the first black child to integrate Louisiana’s segregated schools. In November 1960, six-year-old Ruby Bridges was escorted by federal marshals to her new school, and a jeering crowd outside booed, spat, and threw things. Ruby’s family’s faith, the child’s courage and her prayer that “Please God, try to forgive these people. Because even if they say those bad things. They don’t know what they are doing” are all remarkable. This version was authored by Harvard child psychiatrist Robert Coles (The Moral Lives of Children), and is in its anniversary reprint edition. A classic.
The Rooster and the Fox: A Tale from Chaucer. Helen Ward. Millbrook, 2003. (K-3) Humility
It’s hard to find books that teach the virtue of humility and this story (taken from Chaucer’s Canterbury Tales) is virtue teaching by its inverse. A proud rooster nearly meets his demise in a fox’s jaws, when the wily fox flatters him. But the cock learns his lesson and turns the trick on the fox. The illustrations are fabulous and the language lovely.
It’s hard to find books that teach the virtue of humility and this story (taken from Chaucer’s Canterbury Tales) is virtue teaching by its inverse. A proud rooster nearly meets his demise in a fox’s jaws, when the wily fox flatters him. But the cock learns his lesson and turns the trick on the fox. The illustrations are fabulous and the language lovely.
Gittel’s Hands. Erica Silverman.
Illustrated by Deborah Nourse Lattimore. Bridgewater, 1996. (K-4) Humility
Gittle’s boastful father gets her into trouble. Set in the Carpathian mountains, Gittle is asked to perform impossible tasks. Her kind and humble heart brings the prophet Elijah to her assistance and humility wins out.
Illustrated by Deborah Nourse Lattimore. Bridgewater, 1996. (K-4) Humility
Gittle’s boastful father gets her into trouble. Set in the Carpathian mountains, Gittle is asked to perform impossible tasks. Her kind and humble heart brings the prophet Elijah to her assistance and humility wins out.
Threads: Zlata's Ukrainian Shirt. Lina Maslo. Farrar Straus Giroux Books for Young Readers, 2024. (1-3) Courage, Perseverance, Forgiveness. A young Ukrainian girl survives the 1930s "Holodomor" (death by starvation) imposed by the Soviets on Ukraine—braving her family's betrayal by a friend's family and the loss of her father. The story deals with dark material but nonetheless radiates hope, pride in one's heritage, and courage to both survive and witness to freedom. Vibrant illustrations—"red for love and life, black for sadness"—emphasize the Ukrainian cultural heritage of traditional embroidery. Because of the intense subject matter, not recommended for kindergarteners.
Nelson Mandela: From Prisoner to President. Suzy Capozi. Illustrated by Nicole Tadgell. Random House, 2016 (2-4) Justice, Forgiveness.
Could be read by older kids independently, or as a group at Morning Gathering over a few days. This readable biography of Nelson Mandela, complete with vibrant watercolor illustrations, tells the story of his life beginning with his childhood in a tribal village in South Africa, to his imprisonment for his political activism, to his role as president of South Africa. For more selections on Nelson Mandela, visit our April Heroes page.
Could be read by older kids independently, or as a group at Morning Gathering over a few days. This readable biography of Nelson Mandela, complete with vibrant watercolor illustrations, tells the story of his life beginning with his childhood in a tribal village in South Africa, to his imprisonment for his political activism, to his role as president of South Africa. For more selections on Nelson Mandela, visit our April Heroes page.
Luba and the Wren. Patricia Polacco. Philomel, 1999. Gratitude, Compassion, Gentleness, Humility. (1-4)
Luba lives in a little home on the edge of the forest, and though her house is humble and her clothes are simple, she is perfectly content. One day she saves the life of a small wren, and the wren promises to grant her anything she wishes for. Luba does not want anything, but her parents do—and their demands only grow more and more as they accumulate worldly power and possessions. At the end, the whole family learns that contentment is to be found in gratitude for what you have. Accompanied by a particularly gorgeous, folk-art inspired set of Polacco's illustrations, this is a Ukrainian-styled retelling of the Grimms' The Fisherman's Wife, but may be even more compelling for young readers.
Luba lives in a little home on the edge of the forest, and though her house is humble and her clothes are simple, she is perfectly content. One day she saves the life of a small wren, and the wren promises to grant her anything she wishes for. Luba does not want anything, but her parents do—and their demands only grow more and more as they accumulate worldly power and possessions. At the end, the whole family learns that contentment is to be found in gratitude for what you have. Accompanied by a particularly gorgeous, folk-art inspired set of Polacco's illustrations, this is a Ukrainian-styled retelling of the Grimms' The Fisherman's Wife, but may be even more compelling for young readers.
Nelson Mandela. Long Walk to Freedom. Abridged by Chris Van Wyk.
Illustrated by Paddy Bouma. Flash Point, 2009. (2-4) Justice, Forgiveness
This is an abridged and simplified picture book version of Mandela’s own autobiography by the same name. Its length (64 pages) makes it appropriate for second graders and older. Mandela's themes of justice, forgiveness and reconciliation for a divided South Africa have resonance far beyond those borders. (See our Heroes section for this month.)
Illustrated by Paddy Bouma. Flash Point, 2009. (2-4) Justice, Forgiveness
This is an abridged and simplified picture book version of Mandela’s own autobiography by the same name. Its length (64 pages) makes it appropriate for second graders and older. Mandela's themes of justice, forgiveness and reconciliation for a divided South Africa have resonance far beyond those borders. (See our Heroes section for this month.)
I Was Once a Monkey: Stories Buddha Told. Jeanne M. Lee
Farrar, Straus, and Giroux, 1999. (2-4) Compassion
Six tales of Buddha’s former lives are charmingly retold to illustrate his principal teachings of compassion, truthfulness, and harmony. Excellent for use with 2nd grade unit on Buddhism in ancient India.
Farrar, Straus, and Giroux, 1999. (2-4) Compassion
Six tales of Buddha’s former lives are charmingly retold to illustrate his principal teachings of compassion, truthfulness, and harmony. Excellent for use with 2nd grade unit on Buddhism in ancient India.
The Tiger Who Would Be King. James Thurber. Illus. by JooHee Yoon. Enchanted Lion Books, 2015. (2-6) Humility, Justice
Wry, humorous modern rendering of Thurber's 1927 story is virtue (humility and justice) teaching by its inverse: pride and usurpation. The power-hungry Tiger chafes at the fact that he is not King of the Jungle, and conspires to get other animals to take his side, and overthrow the lion. ("I'll be king of beasts by the time the moon rises. It will be a yellow moon with black stripes in my honor.") A jungle war ensues and the Tiger alone survives, now ruling over a sea of silence. Moral: it's hard to be king of the beasts when there are no beasts left. For the older grades it's a good springboard for discussions of the wise use of power....
Wry, humorous modern rendering of Thurber's 1927 story is virtue (humility and justice) teaching by its inverse: pride and usurpation. The power-hungry Tiger chafes at the fact that he is not King of the Jungle, and conspires to get other animals to take his side, and overthrow the lion. ("I'll be king of beasts by the time the moon rises. It will be a yellow moon with black stripes in my honor.") A jungle war ensues and the Tiger alone survives, now ruling over a sea of silence. Moral: it's hard to be king of the beasts when there are no beasts left. For the older grades it's a good springboard for discussions of the wise use of power....
Desmond and the Very Mean Word. Desmond Tutu. Illustrated by A.G. Ford. Candlewick, 2012. (3-5) Forgiveness
Nobel Peace Prize winner Archbishop Desmond Tutu recounts a poignant story from his childhood. While proudly riding his new bike through his South African township, a group of white boys taunt him “with a very mean word.” He shouts back an insult, but is still unsatisfied, and wishes he could fight back. He takes his thoughts and feelings to the wise Father Trevor, who gives him advice that changes his heart, and even prompts him to consider what might have motivated the bullies. Bold, energetic illustrations accompany the text. This beautiful book about forgiveness could be read to young children (ages 5-7), but is most useful at the third to fifth grade level, where it can be read to very good effect.
Nobel Peace Prize winner Archbishop Desmond Tutu recounts a poignant story from his childhood. While proudly riding his new bike through his South African township, a group of white boys taunt him “with a very mean word.” He shouts back an insult, but is still unsatisfied, and wishes he could fight back. He takes his thoughts and feelings to the wise Father Trevor, who gives him advice that changes his heart, and even prompts him to consider what might have motivated the bullies. Bold, energetic illustrations accompany the text. This beautiful book about forgiveness could be read to young children (ages 5-7), but is most useful at the third to fifth grade level, where it can be read to very good effect.
The Selfish Giant.* Oscar Wilde. Music by Dan Goeller.
Illustrated by Chris Beatrice. Noteworthy Books, 2011. (K-6)
Compassion, Mercy
This lavishly illustrated picture book includes an audio CD with the tale of the Selfish Giant put to music (in Peter and the Wolf fashion). It is a marvelous rendering of Oscar Wilde’s classic fairy tale of the selfish giant, who attempts to keep his large garden for his own use, walling out neighborhood children. The giant grows in happiness only as he learns to open his heart to the children’s needs. Composer Dan Goeller has set the story to music for symphony orchestra and it is a complete triumph. For additional lesson plans, visit Goeller’s website. *Available on Epic!
Illustrated by Chris Beatrice. Noteworthy Books, 2011. (K-6)
Compassion, Mercy
This lavishly illustrated picture book includes an audio CD with the tale of the Selfish Giant put to music (in Peter and the Wolf fashion). It is a marvelous rendering of Oscar Wilde’s classic fairy tale of the selfish giant, who attempts to keep his large garden for his own use, walling out neighborhood children. The giant grows in happiness only as he learns to open his heart to the children’s needs. Composer Dan Goeller has set the story to music for symphony orchestra and it is a complete triumph. For additional lesson plans, visit Goeller’s website. *Available on Epic!
The Invisible Seam. Andrew Frew. Illustrated by Jan Matsuoka. Moon Mountain Publishing, 2003. (2-4) Forgiveness
Set in early 20th century Japan, this is the true story of Michi, a humble, hard-working young seamstress who joins a household as an apprentice. Michi’s stitching outshines her fellow apprentices and she is asked to stitch the more important kimonos and obis. As the reputation of the house grows, so does the jealousy of Michi’s companions. Fellow apprentices take their revenge on Michi and nearly ruin the reputation of their household. Michi, ever mindful of the gifts of her housemates rises to the challenge of forgiveness. The tale exemplifies and exalts the virtues of humility and forgiveness.
Set in early 20th century Japan, this is the true story of Michi, a humble, hard-working young seamstress who joins a household as an apprentice. Michi’s stitching outshines her fellow apprentices and she is asked to stitch the more important kimonos and obis. As the reputation of the house grows, so does the jealousy of Michi’s companions. Fellow apprentices take their revenge on Michi and nearly ruin the reputation of their household. Michi, ever mindful of the gifts of her housemates rises to the challenge of forgiveness. The tale exemplifies and exalts the virtues of humility and forgiveness.
"Echo and Narcissus" by Thomas Bulfinch in Realms of Gold: A Core Knowledge Reader, Volume One, pages 43-45. Core Knowledge Foundation, 2000. (4-6) Humility
Excellent retelling of the Roman legend of Narcissus, the god so beautiful that he falls in love with his own image and cannot drag himself away from his reflection in the lake. Narcissus’s self-love (conceit) walls him off from others, and he dies of starvation staring at himself in the pond. The nymph Echo (condemned by Juno to forever repeat the last words of any sentence said in her presence) adores him, but he banishes her and she too dies of a broken heart, leaving her presence in dark caves and on mountainsides. This cautionary tale against excessive self-love also helps students understand the origin of the term “narcissist” and “echo.”
Excellent retelling of the Roman legend of Narcissus, the god so beautiful that he falls in love with his own image and cannot drag himself away from his reflection in the lake. Narcissus’s self-love (conceit) walls him off from others, and he dies of starvation staring at himself in the pond. The nymph Echo (condemned by Juno to forever repeat the last words of any sentence said in her presence) adores him, but he banishes her and she too dies of a broken heart, leaving her presence in dark caves and on mountainsides. This cautionary tale against excessive self-love also helps students understand the origin of the term “narcissist” and “echo.”
The Painter’s Cat. Sharon Wooding. Putnam Publishing Group, 1994. (3-5)Forgiveness
Set in the Renaissance, this Italian painter’s cat forgives her master for his neglect and is painted into one of the loveliest Annunciation paintings of the period. Based on a real painting
Set in the Renaissance, this Italian painter’s cat forgives her master for his neglect and is painted into one of the loveliest Annunciation paintings of the period. Based on a real painting
The King’s Equal. Katherine Paterson, .
Illustrated by Vladimir Vagin. Harper Collins, 1996. (3-6) Humility
Set in medieval times. Proud and vain king searches for a wife who is his equal in intelligence, beauty, and wealth. He finds her, but to win her love, he must learn wisdom and humility.
Illustrated by Vladimir Vagin. Harper Collins, 1996. (3-6) Humility
Set in medieval times. Proud and vain king searches for a wife who is his equal in intelligence, beauty, and wealth. He finds her, but to win her love, he must learn wisdom and humility.
Who was Nelson Mandela? Pam Pollack. Illustrated by Stephen Marchesi. Penguin Workshop, 2014 (3-6) Justice, Forgiveness
Pen-and-ink illustrations accompany this readable, powerful chapter book biography of Nelson Mandela, which could be read at Morning Gathering over three or four days. The story of Mandela's fight for justice and the power of forgiveness will hold the interest of older children and adults alike. For more selections on Nelson Mandela, visit our April Heroes page.
Pen-and-ink illustrations accompany this readable, powerful chapter book biography of Nelson Mandela, which could be read at Morning Gathering over three or four days. The story of Mandela's fight for justice and the power of forgiveness will hold the interest of older children and adults alike. For more selections on Nelson Mandela, visit our April Heroes page.
Confucius. The Golden Rule. Russell Freedman.
Illustrated by Frederic Clement. Arthur A. Levine Books, 2002 (4-6) Humility
Against the background of warring states and self-aggrandizing princes, we meet Confucius’ who joyously and unrelentingly seeks better ways of living and superior forms of government. With his penchant for memorable detail, Freedman highlights Confucius’ insatiable appetite for learn- ing, and eagerness to seek wisdom. Freedman chronicles the sage’s career from a not-much- sought-after-counselor-to-governors to an itinerant teacher who drew a crowd and taught the need for diligent study, respect, humility, good government, and the quest for knowledge. (The book fails only in the jacket’s tendentious and untrue assertion that “ideals of our own democratic government owe much to the innovations Confucius proposed.” Freedman does not make that case nor does anyone who knows the history of the West or the writing of Confucius.)
Illustrated by Frederic Clement. Arthur A. Levine Books, 2002 (4-6) Humility
Against the background of warring states and self-aggrandizing princes, we meet Confucius’ who joyously and unrelentingly seeks better ways of living and superior forms of government. With his penchant for memorable detail, Freedman highlights Confucius’ insatiable appetite for learn- ing, and eagerness to seek wisdom. Freedman chronicles the sage’s career from a not-much- sought-after-counselor-to-governors to an itinerant teacher who drew a crowd and taught the need for diligent study, respect, humility, good government, and the quest for knowledge. (The book fails only in the jacket’s tendentious and untrue assertion that “ideals of our own democratic government owe much to the innovations Confucius proposed.” Freedman does not make that case nor does anyone who knows the history of the West or the writing of Confucius.)
Who Was Mother Teresa? Jim Giglioti.
Illustrated by Nancy Harrison. Turtleback Books, 2015.
(3-6) Humility, Service
This lively retelling of Mother Teresa’s life (112 pages, large print) could be read aloud at Morning Gathering over 3-4 days. The book includes many revealing details from her childhood in Albania, including her family’s devotion to helping the poor. The Giglioti version is not as elegant as the Demi volume below (distinguished by its illustrations), but the narrative is charming, compelling, and easily understood on a third to sixth grade level. The black and white pencil illustrations are energetic and a good complement.
Illustrated by Nancy Harrison. Turtleback Books, 2015.
(3-6) Humility, Service
This lively retelling of Mother Teresa’s life (112 pages, large print) could be read aloud at Morning Gathering over 3-4 days. The book includes many revealing details from her childhood in Albania, including her family’s devotion to helping the poor. The Giglioti version is not as elegant as the Demi volume below (distinguished by its illustrations), but the narrative is charming, compelling, and easily understood on a third to sixth grade level. The black and white pencil illustrations are energetic and a good complement.
Mother Teresa. Demi.
Margaret McElderry Books, 2009. (4-6) Humility, Compassion
Demi’s exquisite books on major figures in world religions set her apart. She has respectfully told the stories of the Buddha, Confucius, Krishna, Jesus, and Muhammad. Her Mother Teresa is a sympathetic, accurate and visually elegant presentation of the life of Agnes Bojaxhiu, the Albanian-born Sister, who became known to the world as “Mother Teresa.” From an early age, Sister Teresa felt drawn to serve in India. She started out as a teacher and principal of a girl’s school, but increasingly felt called to serve the poorest of the poor and to live among them. She founded a religious order to do just that, and specifically, to serve Jesus in “the poor, the abandoned, the sick, the orphaned, the dying.” Demi presents Mother Teresa as an extraordinary “organizer, energizer, and galvanizer, a true leader,” but she does not shy away from presenting her deep faith as her unwavering motivation. The text includes several of Mother Teresa’s prayers and reflections on seeing Jesus in the poor. There is a generous amount of text in this book, so plan ahead for dividing it over two or three days.
Margaret McElderry Books, 2009. (4-6) Humility, Compassion
Demi’s exquisite books on major figures in world religions set her apart. She has respectfully told the stories of the Buddha, Confucius, Krishna, Jesus, and Muhammad. Her Mother Teresa is a sympathetic, accurate and visually elegant presentation of the life of Agnes Bojaxhiu, the Albanian-born Sister, who became known to the world as “Mother Teresa.” From an early age, Sister Teresa felt drawn to serve in India. She started out as a teacher and principal of a girl’s school, but increasingly felt called to serve the poorest of the poor and to live among them. She founded a religious order to do just that, and specifically, to serve Jesus in “the poor, the abandoned, the sick, the orphaned, the dying.” Demi presents Mother Teresa as an extraordinary “organizer, energizer, and galvanizer, a true leader,” but she does not shy away from presenting her deep faith as her unwavering motivation. The text includes several of Mother Teresa’s prayers and reflections on seeing Jesus in the poor. There is a generous amount of text in this book, so plan ahead for dividing it over two or three days.
Casey at the Bat. Ernest Lawrence Thayer.
Illustrated by Jim Hull. Dover Press, 2012. (4-6) Humility
The classic American baseball poem teaches virtue by its opposite. Sometimes we need to learn to live with disappointment (which still doesn't make it fun).
Illustrated by Jim Hull. Dover Press, 2012. (4-6) Humility
The classic American baseball poem teaches virtue by its opposite. Sometimes we need to learn to live with disappointment (which still doesn't make it fun).
This is Just to Say: Poems of Apology and Forgiveness. Joyce Sidman.
Illustrated by Pamela Zagarenski. Houghton Mifflin, 2007. (4-6) Forgiveness
For a charming exercise in apology and forgiveness, read your students some of the poems in Joyce Sidman’s text. These poems, written by her sixth graders, describe real situations for which they seek to apologize or ask forgiveness, and those they transgressed against, often write back. This is often funny, charming, and teachable. A great spring board for a classroom exercise.
Illustrated by Pamela Zagarenski. Houghton Mifflin, 2007. (4-6) Forgiveness
For a charming exercise in apology and forgiveness, read your students some of the poems in Joyce Sidman’s text. These poems, written by her sixth graders, describe real situations for which they seek to apologize or ask forgiveness, and those they transgressed against, often write back. This is often funny, charming, and teachable. A great spring board for a classroom exercise.
“Aung San Suu Kyi” in Character is Destiny John McCain with Mark Salter.
Random House, 2005, pp. 224-231. (5-6)Graciousness and Courtesy
This portrait of contemporary heroine, Aung San Suu Kyi (of Myanmar), helps students see courtesy not simply as form of respect for others, but also a way of “reaching out to beauty to banish ugliness” from what can be a very ugly communal life. Myanmar (formerly Burma) has been ruled by a brutal military dictatorship for forty years. Aung San Suu Kyi is the gracious, articulate woman, who mobilized the movement for democratic reform in 1990. She has been a political prisoner living under house arrest for most of the past decade. The diminutive sixty year old writer interacts with her captors (and anyone she meets) with unfailing courtesy, but her eyes are resolutely on the prize: a democratic future for Burma. Suu Kyi’s story reminds us that graciousness and courtesy are not signs of weakness, but often strength: refusing to allow an ugly reality to define the inner person. Middle School Teachers could deepen student understanding of this remarkable woman by reading some of her articles written for a Japanese newspaper while under house arrest. See Aung San Suu Kyi, Letters from Burma (Penguin, 1997)
Random House, 2005, pp. 224-231. (5-6)Graciousness and Courtesy
This portrait of contemporary heroine, Aung San Suu Kyi (of Myanmar), helps students see courtesy not simply as form of respect for others, but also a way of “reaching out to beauty to banish ugliness” from what can be a very ugly communal life. Myanmar (formerly Burma) has been ruled by a brutal military dictatorship for forty years. Aung San Suu Kyi is the gracious, articulate woman, who mobilized the movement for democratic reform in 1990. She has been a political prisoner living under house arrest for most of the past decade. The diminutive sixty year old writer interacts with her captors (and anyone she meets) with unfailing courtesy, but her eyes are resolutely on the prize: a democratic future for Burma. Suu Kyi’s story reminds us that graciousness and courtesy are not signs of weakness, but often strength: refusing to allow an ugly reality to define the inner person. Middle School Teachers could deepen student understanding of this remarkable woman by reading some of her articles written for a Japanese newspaper while under house arrest. See Aung San Suu Kyi, Letters from Burma (Penguin, 1997)
The Hiding Place. Corrie Ten Boom, with Elizabeth and John Sherrill.
Chosen Books, 2006. 272 pages. (5-8) Forgiveness, Courage
The thirty-fifth anniversary edition of this classic, which is now widely regarded as a holocaust must-read for Middle School. Corrie and her family are Dutch watchmakers and Resistance members, who hide Jewish families during the Nazi occupation of their country. They are discovered and sent to concentration camps. Only Corrie survives to tell the tale, and comes to believe that she is called to forgiveness of her captors. She is able to do this until the day one of her guards confronts her at a book signing with his hand extended in peace. She freezes. An extraordinary story of courage and eliminating the toxin of hatred through forgiveness. This is easily a two week read-aloud if used at older grades.
Chosen Books, 2006. 272 pages. (5-8) Forgiveness, Courage
The thirty-fifth anniversary edition of this classic, which is now widely regarded as a holocaust must-read for Middle School. Corrie and her family are Dutch watchmakers and Resistance members, who hide Jewish families during the Nazi occupation of their country. They are discovered and sent to concentration camps. Only Corrie survives to tell the tale, and comes to believe that she is called to forgiveness of her captors. She is able to do this until the day one of her guards confronts her at a book signing with his hand extended in peace. She freezes. An extraordinary story of courage and eliminating the toxin of hatred through forgiveness. This is easily a two week read-aloud if used at older grades.
Parent/Teacher Recommendations
The Book of Forgiving: The Fourfold Path for Healing Ourselves and Our World. Desmond and Mpho Tutu.Harper, 2014.
South Africa’s Anglican Archbishop, Desmond Tutu chaired the South African commission that investigated human rights abuses under the apartheid regime. The Commission was unique in its emphasis on healing the wounds of the past through truth-telling followed by amnesty and forgiveness rather than punishment or retributive justice. In this book, written with his sister, Archbishop Tutu prescribes a path of Telling the Story, Naming the Hurt, Granting Forgiveness, and Renewing or Releasing the Relationship
South Africa’s Anglican Archbishop, Desmond Tutu chaired the South African commission that investigated human rights abuses under the apartheid regime. The Commission was unique in its emphasis on healing the wounds of the past through truth-telling followed by amnesty and forgiveness rather than punishment or retributive justice. In this book, written with his sister, Archbishop Tutu prescribes a path of Telling the Story, Naming the Hurt, Granting Forgiveness, and Renewing or Releasing the Relationship
Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt. Arthur C. Brooks. Broadside Books, 2019
If you're weary of the toxic anger and "the outrage industrial complex" that is making big bucks by turning us against each other, read this calm, wise, refreshing book. It is winning accolades from thoughtful people on both sides of the political aisle, and from leaders of the major faith traditions. Policy analyst Brooks focuses on our relatively new habit of seeing those with a different opinion from ours as fundamentally flawed and worthy of eye-rolling contempt. He points out that this is a break with our past, and promotes an ever-more-toxic downward spiral. Disagreement, he reminds us, is necessary and helpful in attaining excellence. Drawing on recent studies about leadership, he offers a path to disagreeing agreeably and forging new paths with shared purpose.
If you're weary of the toxic anger and "the outrage industrial complex" that is making big bucks by turning us against each other, read this calm, wise, refreshing book. It is winning accolades from thoughtful people on both sides of the political aisle, and from leaders of the major faith traditions. Policy analyst Brooks focuses on our relatively new habit of seeing those with a different opinion from ours as fundamentally flawed and worthy of eye-rolling contempt. He points out that this is a break with our past, and promotes an ever-more-toxic downward spiral. Disagreement, he reminds us, is necessary and helpful in attaining excellence. Drawing on recent studies about leadership, he offers a path to disagreeing agreeably and forging new paths with shared purpose.
For an extensive bibliography of quality children's literature exemplifying these virtues,
see the Core Virtues Resource Guide
or click here: Additional suggestions by virtue for K-3 ; Additional suggestions for 3-6
see the Core Virtues Resource Guide
or click here: Additional suggestions by virtue for K-3 ; Additional suggestions for 3-6